Every human that has ever lived and will ever lived has a desire to love and be loved. This is how God created us to be. We all have a desire to be heard, understood, loved, and seen.
As Christians, we understand that God hears exactly what we say and a lot that we don't say. We understand that God knows our deepest thoughts and what makes us tick. He loves us more than mere words can begin to express. He sees everything that we never show people and He also sees the heart and soul of us.
However, just because we believe that does not mean we do not want to be loved for who we are by human beings. I don't think anything is wrong with wanting to feel like others love you and appreciate you for who you really are, not just what you do or what you can give.
God has wired us to crave affection; we are made to feel loved and give love. However, we must balance a need to express that desire and understand that it is only Christ who can give us the full satisfaction of knowing love and only He can show us how to properly express love.
It is difficult to explain...but as Christians, we have to realize that we are not the most liked people around. God's truth is not a commonly accepted concept.
People who are sold out for God can never look like people of the world. We are set apart. This means that though we crave human love and affection, we may have to settle for the fact that God will provide our every need as He sees fit. That may not include someone who loves you the way you desire.
However, do not let this discourage you! God sees you...REALLY sees you and He will not let your faithfulness go unrewarded. He who sees and knows all things has called you. He is faithful. He will not leave you hanging. The Maker and definition of love Himself with satisfy your every need. Choose to trust Him with your heart; He will never abuse it.
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